Darl was one of what we called the “Henderson cousins,” 5 kids (6 if you count me, but I was the youngest and mostly the tag-along) who grew up together as the younger part of Springbrook Dairy Farms in Austinburg, Ohio. My older sister passed over a quarter century ago, but, fortunately, no one else until now. Darl’s passing makes 2, and the loss seems humongous.
Darl was my cousin “the pilot.” He also was one of the cousins who (when I was a pre-teen) loaded the bales of hay on the flat wagon behind the baler, which was behind the tractor I was driving around the field. To me, a tiny girl, Darl, his brother and my brother were more or less like gods. I looked up to them, and to cousin Ann and my sis as the ones who knew important things, which, indeed, they did!
Our life adventures made our adult encounters less frequent, mostly for family occasions, such as weddings or funerals. I remember stopping with my spouse Dan to visit relatives in Chagrin Falls on our way back to Omaha after my mother’s funeral in Ashtabula. Darl and Pat were there, too, and so was my youngest girl Melinda, who really didn’t know Darl and Pat at all before that and now remembers the event fondly.
Some years ater, Darl and Pat stopped by our home in Omaha with their huge mobile “home on wheels.” I remember they parked it down at the end of our street, in a small area meant for vehicles of visitors Memorial Park. Their vehicle took up almost all the space! It was only there for a short time, but I don’t recall ever seeing another one in that area. It was a splendid deal to have my cousin Darl and his wife visit our home.
A year or so ago, Darl helped Pat put together a marvelous hand-crafted scrapbook which they then sent us via US Post. It was titled “Springbrook: Piecing Together A Family Heritage,” which began with the aphorism: “Just as pieces stitched together in a quilt warm our bodies, a scrapbook binds together memories to warm our hearts.”
Hopefully this online memory collection offered by the funeral home will help us not only honor Darl’s life, but also “warm our hearts” with our love for him.
Sarah Voss, Cousin