Ashanti Alise Woods Decker

Ashanti and I grew up together as far back as I can remember, we lived across the street from each other. Every summer and every weekend we could spend together playing out side we did. We remember running in the sprinklers and playing in the mud on hot summer days. To swinging on her tree swing in the gorgeous spring weather, we were truly first friends. Growing up with two brothers each we felt like sisters. I will always have the precious memories. I am so blessed to have been a part of Ashanti's life. I thank God for giving us such a great time when he did. I love you my lil Sis Ashanti. I know one day we'll get to swing together in clouds like old times. You are a beautiful Angel
With all my love
Angie

Today, Daddy told me that as time passes, others who love you too will move on with their lives. It is already happening and that is fine. That is only natural and how it should be. That is the nature of life and we know you wouldn’t want any of us to dwell too long in the dark void created when you left us way too soon. He said there will be happy times for them and, unfortunately, more sad times ahead. He actually said "more tragedies", but I don't want to even imagine that for our family or your wonderfully brilliant constellation of friends and colleagues. Daddy said I will be a museum -- filled with memories of you. A repository of sorts. He said all those sweet memories would always be safe with me. He is right. He also said your friends will always be able to call or write with memories they have of times they shared with you. Some will want to apologize for some misstep and others will just want to share about special times. I have had one call already -- a sad one. I know you would have been interested in receiving that call personally, but I took it for you, honey. Ashanti, sweetheart, you are terribly missed. Like I told you, we will always be seven. Meet you in Glory, honey. Always and forever. xxooxxoo Mommy